“Gay” is a sexuality.
IT’S THE WAY YOU HAVE SEX! It’s not dressing as a woman and lip syncing. It’s not dance music. It’s not spending money on frivolous travel and fashion and bullshit.
It’s HOW YOU FUCK! That’s it! All this other stuff is just bullshit.
I think gay pride sends the wrong message to people who feel they might be gay, but don’t enjoy dance music or drag queens or all that bullshit. This could cause someone to be ashamed or offended by their own sexual identity. What about the people who do not enjoy that bullshit and do not appreciate being represented by these popular culture “gay” things (drag queens, dance music, consumerism).